3 Devious Ways To Make Your Ex-Girlfriend Jealous
Getting dumped is a good reason to make your ex jealous so she'll want you back again. There's no way for me to know what happened, but maybe she crushed your heart and now you want to put a little of that back at her. What about making her realize once again that you're an attractive guy and she shouldn't take you for granted? However this has transpired, it will feel good to annoy the devil out of her with a little well-placed jealousy.
Make Ex Girlfriend Jealous Tip #1 – Understanding Women and Jealousy
Women are very paranoid about their relationships, that is a very important fact when you want to awaken that little imp called jealousy and get him on your side. Any observer of women will tell you that their greatest fear is losing your adoration, your love, even if they've just dumped you. We all know the cur who wanders the sexual landscape without a care and yet the ladies swoon over him. The brigand makes them swoon, but we decent types don't even get a nod.
Ignore her. That's your first move. Now, don't act like a jerk; employ some finesse.
Make Ex Girlfriend Jealous Tip #2 – Make Her Feel Like She's Missing Out
I know you want to tell her that she's a worm you wouldn't care to step on, that's just not going to work. Why make her mad? That's all words like that will do. And you'll come off as a creep. Neither of those are your goal.
What you need to do is make sure you leave a vacuum in her life. Don't involve yourself in her life at all. Display a lot of disinterest should she make an attempt to reach out. Be very cool. But don't push it to the point of nastiness. Now is the time to kick up your heels. Let all your mutual friends know what a great time you're having. You need to become the fun guy you once were.
Once your ex hears about your fun times like when she first met you, boredom, if nothing else, will start her to wondering what she may be missing. “I remember that this guy was lots of fun. Why did I let him go?” These thoughts could very well become a concern to her.
Make Ex Girlfriend Jealous Tip #3 – Turn Up the Heat
Great! You've got fun back in your life. You're being somewhat aloof when she's around. The next step is a big one. It's time to play on the jealousy heartstrings. She probably is wishing she were part of your crowd once more.
Finally, you need to start involving some women in your life. You don't really want to start dating again. In fact, you shouldn't if you have plans on getting your ex back. But a lunch or a coffee break with another girl every so often is acceptable.
Sooner or later word will get back to your ex and she'll start wondering. At this point, she's going to be wondering if she goofed by letting a fun and interesting guy go. She'll start asking herself if she should make a move to get you back.
If you've played this jealousy card right, she'll be a little beside herself wondering how to go about getting you back. Now, it's your turn. She snubbed you. But now the ball is in your court. You can decide what to do about the relationship. Whether or not you decide to take her back, do not, DO NOT, be a jerk about it. You must remain the decent guy. Don't be a bad guy, she's got feelings, too. Besides, wouldn't you rather be remembered as a nice guy instead of a creep?
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Filed under Avoid Divorce, Marriage Issues, Relationship Problems, marriage problems by on Sep 6th, 2010.