Balance Your Sexual Cycle
In order for a couple to be truly happy with their sex lifes they need to know each others sexual cycle. Also you need to know who plays which role in your relationship, let me explain in most relationships you get two roles the low desire spouse LDS and the high desire spouse HDS. Normally it is the partner with the low desire who determines when a couple will have sex. Discover which sexual cycle you fall into:
Cycle 1: Desire > Arousal > Orgasm > Resolution
Studies show that half of the population 50% fall into cycle 1 they know they want sex which leads to thoughts and flirting which gets them aroused leading to sex. Then…
Cycle 2: Arousal > Desire > Orgasm > Resolution
Now what about the other half 50% of the population who fall into cycle 2 they have to get the motor running through physical arousal before they desire sex.
So what you need to do is to determine:
- Determine which one of you is the low desire and which is he high desire spouse?
- Also see which cycle you both fall into?
- Are You in a mixed-cycle marriage?
So the key is to find out which cycle you fall under and your partner and then make the changes needed to improve your love live. By understanding this key concept you can take your relationship to the next level.
In most cases the LDS really enjoys sex but they just need to become aroused before sex. If this is the case in your relationship then try and using some couples sex toys such as clit teasers or nipple rings to get your partner in the mood. Remember that 50% of the population just needs to start sex off differently which is great news for couples who are having problems. Try couples sex toys visit a sex toys blog…
Try using some sex toys to get you going if you are one of the cycle 2 members. Tell them to start kissing you, your neck or use some sex toys to get you going first and then take it from there…
