Cheating on Your Spouse

My wife is an ice queen!

I am out of town.

What she doesn’t know won’t hurt her

You’ve heard them all. You’ve reached midlife. Your life isn’t getting better and you are getting older. Suzy in accounting has flirted with you and her body is SO firm…maybe…

You’re not an idiot. Only dorks and dummies get caught. Maybe you’ll just have a drink. That won’t hurt anyone. You just want to feel alive again!

You vow not to cheat In fact, you promise yourself you won’t. But after your last drink and that soft kiss, you have already started to think about what’s next. You never foresaw this type of heat. You’ve never stepped out of your marital vows before. Now look in the mirror. You’ve been researching how to cheat, how not to get caught and your double life is accelerating at a rapid pace.

You’ve learned the lingo, codes and rules for cheaters so as to avoid detection. These rules will give you a squeaky clean alibi 100% of the time. You’ll digest the steps on how to eliminate the obvious errors and acquire the specialized tactics for creating your 2nd life including burying all the evidence, all of the time. You will foresee your mate’s suspicious questions and brush off the rare uncomfortable questions Your unintentional plan has guidelines to follow and you’ve followed them.

This 2nd life will come to a conclusion

Regardless of how you account for your duality, irrational behavior and twisted reasoning, you will pay the price. The price you pay is always in the future. Actually, like the myriad of people before you, you’ve buried your values so deep, you don’t may not know what they are.

You are too smart to get caught, of course.You have taken every precaution. You’ve left no stone unturned. You and your accomplice have co-written the rules and agreed to your duplicity. You two have probably set up rules such as:

You’ve agreed to an extra email account.

The two of you delete your email right away.

You’ve agreed to delete your browsing history every day.

You both call from work phones or a secondary cell phone.

You’ve created a code that appears like harmless messages.

You pay in cash for your hotel stays.

You agree to only meet out of town.

You’ve continued professing your love to your spouse.

Unprotected sex isn’t an option for the two of you.

You have purchased an “Alibi Service” and have iron-clad excuses for being away.

There are infinite variables. There is a limit to your genius. Clever software programmer have created invisible files that can capture every key you have tapped. This means that even if you delete an email from your lover and put it in the trash, your key strokes outlining your password and naughty talk is memorized by the program (which is in a hidden file) and can be seen by your spouse. Uh oh!

There is only a single, clear and meaningful resolution to your duality and fortunately it comes with a clean conscious, an open communicative style and an abundance of prosperity.

Cheating, sex and intimacy can be complicated.  To cheat on your wife today is a temporary solution to a permanent problem.