Dirty Talk Secrets
Sex therapists, counselors and experts agree … Dirty talk can be a fantastic way to rev up your sex life, let your partner know what you want, AND enhance sex for both of you. Dissatisfaction and a sense of monotony can afflict a sexual relationship over time. Do you feel this way about your relationship? Maybe as of late, having sex seems more like an “inconvenience” unless you’re both REALLY in the mood and feeling lusty. Whatever happened to the lustfullness you both once felt toward each other?
This sense of sensuality-lost can destroy your love life over time. Here’s some straightforward advice … Inject some of the sexually UNFAMILIAR back into your sex life!
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A simple way to begin revving things up is with sexy words and phrases. It’s not unusual for it to be a little awkward the first few times. Maybe you said something dirty before, and it was taken out of context or even turned off your woman. Here are some secrets to help you get started, avoid embarrassment, and most of all … Have a great time.
Just be yourself Some initial advice is to avoid pretending that you are in a pornographic movie. It will most likely make your girl feel weird. Belittling lines such as, “oh yeah suck it bitch”, or “turn around and let me pound your _____” will usually turn most women off. You’re better off using a loving, tender tone. So keep it mellow, such as, “Oh yeah baby, I love it how you get your lips all wet and do that to me”.
Try it yourself first Imagine being with your girl the next time you’re masturbating and say a few hot lines out loud that come to mind. Do the lines seem a bit strange, or do they get your heart pumping? Later on, take a shot at saying some dirty lines and see how she responds. And, don’t forget that your woman react positively to your steamy words when they feel a strong sense of romance with you.
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Getting started Begin with some “aahh’s” and “oh, yeah” type sounds and phrases with some heavy, obvious breaths. You’ll be clueing her in to how you are ready to take the excitement to the next level.
Praise Women absolutely eat it up when you tell them how gorgeous and sexy they are to you! Tell her things like, “How your ____ feels is so hot,” or I love how curvy your body is”. Saying these phrases out loud can really get both of you more excited!
Say what you’re enjoying Every now and then,phrases such as “Oh, the way you rub against my _____ is so hot”, or “I can’t wait to slide my ____ into your _____”. By now, things are really HOT, and the erotic talk you’ve started is most likely coming from her too!
Momentum Due to your new and exciting dirty talk, your woman may be wanting to push the erotic envelope even more! Maybe reading some dirty stories together, or watching some soft or even hard porn will be the next step to even steamier sex.
As cliché as it may sound, you’ll be amazed at how much a little erotic verbal effort on your part could go a long way to re-ignite that old spark!
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