Divorce Court Dos And Don'ts
Much emphasis has always been placed on being original and staying true to yourself, however many people learn the hard way that sometimes we are forced to adapt to societal standards. A good example is how you behave in court. This may seem obvious, but it is actually quite tricky. Besides, who does not know how to behave in court? Who has not seen at least one episode of CSI? Unfortunately real life doesn’t always play out like a script. Here are a few key points that anyone going through a divorce can utilize.
How To Dress for Divorce Court?
Attending a court hearing is extremely intimidating to many people. Enter any Court house in America and you will see people in various forms of dress, however, it is important to dress to impress. As a child most of us dreaded hearing the phrase wear your Sunday best. When in court, you want to put on your Sunday best! A business suit is preferable, however at the very least khakis, a dress shirt, tie and a sports jacket for men, and a skirt and dressy blouse for women. Whenever possible, be sure to hide any piercings or body art. Hats are not allowed in the courtroom either.
Courtroom Behavior?
Always follow the specific rules for the divorce court you are in. You can learn more about this by observing other cases in your court. Some general rules that everyone should follow are to stand when addressing the court. It is important to address the judge as "Your Honor". Do not interrupt the judge. It is important to speak concisely and clearly and be direct when answering questions. There should be no eating or drinking in the courtroom, and no gum too.
How can I prepare for Court?
As previously mentioned, observing other cases gives you a slight edge as to the workings of your particular divorce court, and even the judge presiding over your case. It's important to choose your words wisely during pretrial meetings with family court or the probation department. While it is easy to get emotional and to speak from the heart, you must also realize that you are speaking with a civil servant. This person is to report to the divorce court. In addition, the walls have ears, and sometimes without trying we can sabotage our own efforts by what is said or done.
With a little forethought and preparation, it is possible to get ahead of the game and in a great position during this very challenging situation.
