Do You Continue Attracting Emotionally Inept Mates?
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes… …
"I often seem to attract a partner who's emotionally unavailable. What can I do to change that"? This is a question that came from one of my clients. Coincidentally, that was the strongest negative vibration I recurred from my lengthy history of relationship failures. They were either emotionally inept, lived out of town or traveled a great deal.
When you continue creating unavailable relationships, my question to you is, "Is there an aspect of your life that is afraid to commit, or afraid to be transparent in a love relationship"? That may be hard to take in at the moment, but that is what I have found to be the case most of the time.
As a relationship life coach, I provide Relationship Life Coaching for Women. I also recommend that you get really clear about what you desire. Get clear by creating a list of the qualities you want in your ideal match.
You create the list for yourself so you can attain clarity concerning what it is you truly desire. You'll start to realize where any weaknesses are in yourself as you create the list. You'll see where you need to go to increase your level of expectation or belief in the likelihood of attracting what you are desiring.
To bring out the state of feeling happy expectation, continue by asking yourself the question "Why do I desire this"? It is time to use your imagination. When you answer this question, think of all the wonderful activities you will do together. Think of grinning, holding hands, and introducing him to your girlfriends. Think of what it will be like to be with someone who's romantic and loves to bring you flowers.
You make the list for yourself, and the Universe recognizes your clear vibration – the pure intention and unresisted desire!
Most of us have been trained from childhood to accept what you receive, it is not kosher to ask for favors, why can't you just be content with what you have? – kind of like programming. I say you ask for it all and keep feeling yourself into the fulfilment of your affirmations.
Filed under Relationship Problems, marriage problems, news by on Oct 28th, 2009. 
