Do You Keep Creating Emotionally Unavailable Lovers?
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Best Selling Author , writes… …
"I always seem to create a partner who is emotionally unavailable. What should I do to change my vibration"? This is a question that came from one of my clients. Interestingly, that was the strongest complaint I recurred from my lengthy string of relationship failures. They were either emotionally inept, lived far away or was travelling all the time.
When you continue attracting unavailable lovers, my question to you is, "Is there an aspect of your life that has a fear of commitment, or finds it difficult to be transparent in a love relationship"? That may be hard to take in right now, but that's what I have found to be the case in most cases.
As a relationship life coach, I provide Relationship Life Coaching for Women. I also recommend that you get really clear about what you want. Get clear by creating a list of the qualities you want in your perfect mate.
You make the list for yourself so you can get clear concerning what it is you truly desire. You will start to realize where any weaknesses are in your vibration as you make the list. You will see where you need to go to work on your level of expectation or belief in the chance of receiving what you are desiring.
To bring out the state of feeling happy expectation, next ask yourself the question "Why do I want it"? It's time to engage your imagination. When you answer this question, imagine all the fun activities you will do with your attracted mate. Think of smiling, holding hands, and introducing him to your girlfriends. Envision what it'll be like to be with someone who is romantic and loves to bring you a bouquet.
You create the list for yourself, and the Universe recognizes your clear vibration – the pure intention and unresisted desire!
Many of us have been told as a child to accept whatever you get, it's not polite to ask for favors, why can't you just be content with what you have? – kind of like brainwashing. I say you ask for it all and continue creating yourself into the fulfilment of your affirmations.
