Do You Keep Creating Emotionally Unavailable Mates?
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Specialist , writes… …
"I always tend to create the one who's emotionally unavailable. What can I do to alter that"? This is a question that was asked by one of my clients. Coincidentally, that was the main negative vibration I recurred from my long history of failed relationships. They were either emotionally unavailable, lived out of town or was travelling all the time.
When you keep attracting unavailable relationships, my question to you is, "Is there an aspect of your life that is afraid to commit, or finds it difficult to be truly open in a love relationship"? That may be difficult to take in right now, but that is what I find to be the situation in most cases.
As a relationship life coach, I provide Relationship Life Coaching for Women. I also recommend that you get really clear about what you desire. Get clear by making a list of the qualities you want in your perfect mate.
You make the list for yourself so you can get clarity concerning what it is you truly desire. You will start to realize where any weaknesses are in your vibration as you make the list. You will see where you should go to increase your level of expectation or belief in the likelihood of receiving what you are asking for.
To bring out the state of feeling happy expectation, next ask yourself the question "Why do I want this"? It is time to engage your imagination. When you answer this question, imagine all the fun activities you will do together. Think of smiling, holding hands, and introducing him to your girlfriends. Think of what it will be like to be with someone who's romantic and loves to bring you flowers.
You create the list for yourself, and the Universe responds to your clear vibration – the pure intention and unresisted desire!
Most of us have been trained from childhood to accept whatever you receive, it's not polite to ask for favors, why can you not just be happy with what you have? – kind of like programming. I suggest you ask for it all and continue feeling yourself into the fulfilment of your affirmations.
