Fantastic Sex Right Away
Sex is masterful. Or it should at least be … Does it seem as if everyone else has better sex than you? Or do you think that the sex you get has room for a little improvement? Keep on reading.
FOREPLAY
Good sex starts outside the bed. Before you even contemplating going out and finding a sex partner, consider all these things:
LEARN TO LOVE YOUR BODY
If you're constantly thinking about whether you look fat or wrong, you can not give yourself properly to sex. Therefore: Learn to love your body. Yes, it can be done, but it needs an active effort.Nobody is perfect, not top models, not you, so make peace with that fact.
STOP WITH YOUR PREJUDICE
Do you think that sex is shameful, embarrassing or downright dirty? Do you think sex in a relationship should affectionate and loving and not cheeky and naughty? Your attitude to sex is essential to if you’re going to enjoy it or not, so find out what you really think about sex. Ask yourself how you perceive sex and challenge to your position by examining where it comes from and whether it really is at all relevant.
KNOW YOUR BODY
You can not demand that a man can satisfy you if you do not even know what it takes to get an orgasm. So explore your body, touch it, look at it and learn to masturbate yourself to an orgasm.
EXPLORE YOUR SEXUALITY
Sex is not just something physical – there’s also something going on between your ears. And just as it is completely individual, the touch that will bring you to an orgasm, it is also 100% individual, what turns you on. Do you prefer the missionary position or doggy style? Roleplaying, lacquer and leather or sex in the (semi) public space? Find out what turns you on and (equally importantly) where your limits are. Remember that it doesn't work if you just think about your sexuality over the period of one afternoon: Your sexuality evolves as anything, just as your relationships, your clothing style and your hobbies. Read books and naughty tales, watch porn movies or pictures, talk, listen – explore your sexuality and your sex drive and do it regularly, so you keep the desire and interest in running.
LEARN TO SEX
Sex is not necessarily just something you can. Oh yes, anyone can figure out how to put a dick in a hole, but it does not necessarily mean that you have had great sex – right? There's no shame in learning about sex positions and techniques that provide pleasure.Seek inspiration and information through books, adult dating sites, sexy movies, or conversations with your lovers and girlfriends.
