Fire Pits: A Mirror Image of Interdependence.
Lying under the night sky in each others arms , dimly lit by the flames of a fire, is the epitome of intimacy and romance. One can have this excellent fire at the back of one's residence as a fire pit. Fire pits nowadays are often the focus of outdoor gatherings for friends and family. Warmth and light fire pits are a reflection of the relationships of the people gathered around them and filled with beauty.
A fire pit begins with a strong base. The basic component could be stone, copper, cast iron, bronze or ceramic. The base will be stronger and last longer if the material is more durable. A relationship must have a strong base of understanding and knowledge of the other person. For a relationship to last long there needs to be a strong base which comes from deep understanding.
Additional elements increase the beauty of the foundational base. Let your artistry extend beyond the obvious by manipulating the shadows cast about you. The fire pit can be part of a table or be used for cooking, increasing its functionality and attraction. Decorative screens and covers to contain sparks can also be used. Additions need to be put into the base in order to make the relationship more beautiful. A little space makes for more room later. The relationship will have direction and purpose when each person is intentional. Attention and consideration can contain the hurtful times that come to any relationship.
A source of flammable material is required for a fire pit to serve its purpose. Wood are all available as fuel sources with gas and propane. Relationships must also be fueled. Trust, understanding and care are all necessary fuel sources for relationships. The outward manifestation of ourselves is realized in how you feed the fire.
What material, how decorative and what to use as a fuel source are just a few of the choices when integrating a fire pit into an environment. Above and beyond the time needed to get this set up will be the ongoing time required to maintain it. A relationship also involves many choices: what it is founded on, how it is built up, what is used to maintain it. Effort is a necessity to get things going, and commitment is crucial to maintaining it.
