Guide to Freeing Yourself from the Fear of Betrayal
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Expert , writes… …
"I'm afraid of being hurt again, but I really want to reach my soul mate. How can I increase confidence and find my soul mate"?
You have two ways to go here. 1) You can mope until you have had adequate time in between the pain in your past relationship or 2) start healing and letting go of the past. Since you desire to reach your soul mate, then I would do the work in releasing. It's quicker and simpler than you imagine. Acquiring help from a certified relationship life coach can make your path smoother.
Being guided to do release work is a way of releasing and freeing yourself from your past. Think of emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You're creating new area for the fresh, new, healthy, and whole relationship to reside in.
I can hear some of you right now crying “Yeah but, I do not think he really should be forgiven for his actions. He was wrong and that's just that”! The energy it takes to hold a grudge takes up your space. You're allowing your energy to be siphoned off from you. It's a slow leak in your energy field and over time, it will deplete you, if it has not already. Also, that little energy leak prevents you from having all of your power focused in this present moment. When you don't have your power in the moment, do you think you're going to be a powerful, deliberate creator? It makes it that much more difficult. Take your full potential back by releasing and letting go of the past, of judgements that weigh you down, clutter up your energy field and block you from going forward to having the life you were meant to live. You can speed up the process immensely by getting help from a life coach.
I have found that the topic of forgiving can be a convoluted one. First off, I'm not talking about the kind of forgiveness where we were excusing someone else's poor behavior. It is essential to have healthy boundaries set for you. And to know how you feel concerning who you desire in your life and who you do not, how you desire to spend your life and with whom. It is essential to understand what will work for you and what does not. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!
Until you clear the area of hurt, you will either create more pain or have a difficult time being truly fulfilled with love. So first, expunge the old hurt, then release and let in new love.
