Guide to Liberating Your Mind from the Fear of Betrayal
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Specialist , writes… …
"I am afraid of being betrayed again, but I really want to reach my soul mate. How can I feel more confident about love"?
You have two ways to go here. 1) You can wait until you have had adequate time in between the pain in your past relationship or 2) start moving on and letting go of the past. Since you want to reach your soul mate, then I would begin the task of letting go. It's quicker and easier than you would think. Getting help from a certified relationship life coach can make your path smoother.
Being guided to do release work is a path of releasing and freeing yourself from the past. Consider releasing your emotions and letting go as forgiveness. You're making energetic area for the amazing, new, healthy, and whole relationship to show up into.
I can hear some of you right now crying “Yeah but, I don't think he really needs to be let off the hook for his behavior. It was wrong and that's just that”! The energy it takes to hold a grudge takes up your space. You're allowing your energy to be siphoned off from you. It's a slow leak in your energy field and over time, it will deplete you, if it has not already. Also, that little energy leak prevents you from having all of your power focused in this present moment. When you don't have your power in the moment, do you think you are going to be the perfect creator that you truly are? It becomes that much more impairing. Take your full potential back by releasing and letting go of your past relationship, of judgements that burden you, muss up your energy level and prevent you from going in the right direction to creating the life you were born to live. You can speed up this process immensely by receiving help from a life coach.
I find that the idea of forgiveness can be a convoluted one. Firstly, I'm not talking about the kind of forgiveness where we're excusing someone else's poor behavior. It is essential to have clear boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel concerning who you desire in your life and who you don't, how you desire to spend your time and with whom. It's important to realize what works for you and what doesn't. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!
Until you clear the area of pain, you will either create more hurt or have a difficult time being truly fulfilled with love. So first, expunge the old pain, then release and let in new love.
