Helpful Hints to Liberating Your Mind from the Threat of Betrayal
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Advisor , writes… …
"I am afraid of being hurt again, but I really want to find my soul mate. How can I feel more confident about love"?
You have two ways to pursue here. 1) You can mope until you have had adequate time in between the hurt in your past relationship or 2) begin moving on and letting go of the past. Considering you want to find your soul mate, then I would begin the task of letting go. It's faster and simpler than you'd imagine. Getting assistance from a certified relationship life coach can smooth the path.
Getting guidance to do release work is a path of releasing and freeing yourself from your past. Think of emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You are making energetic space for the amazing, new, healthy, and whole relationship to reside in.
I know some of you are crying “Yeah but, I do not think he really should be forgiven for his actions. He wronged me and that is just that”! The will it takes to hold a grudge takes up your space. You're allowing your energy to be siphoned off from you. It's a slow trickle in your energy level and after a while, it will deplete you, if it has not already. Also, that little energy trickle prevents you from letting all of your power focused in this present moment. When you don't have your power in the moment, do you think you're going to be a powerful, deliberate creator? It becomes that much more impairing. Take your full power back by releasing and letting go of the past, of judgements that weigh you down, clutter up your energy level and prevent you from going forward to having the life you were meant to live. You can speed up the process immensely by receiving help from a life coach.
I have found that the idea of forgiving can be a convoluted one. First off, I'm not talking about the kind of forgiveness where we're excusing someone else's poor behavior. It's essential to have clear boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel concerning who you want in your life and who you don't, how you desire to spend your time and with whom. It's essential to realize what works for you and what doesn't. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!
Until you clear the space of hurt, you'll either attract more pain or have a hard time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, expunge the old pain, then release and let in new love.
