How Can A Woman Feminize Her Man
Is it too much to ask for the men in our lives to take dance lessons with us? Can we ever go to a "chick flick" without hearing sighs of boredom? All of these struggles leave us wondering if men are capable of tapping into their sensitive sides. How can we feminize a man without the frustration?
A woman's expectation may be too high. It might be too much to expect your man to drop the football and start wearing pink all in one day. You have to find a way to bring out his sensitive side while still protecting his brute side. Try to find one thing he is willing to do that still has some of his interests involved. Like a funny "chick flick".
Make it fifty-fifty. If you don't like action movies or movies with a mentality of a twelve year old, then don't expect him to be so cooperative of tear-jerkers. There has to be some meeting of the middle or no one feels they are getting their needs met. Men and women don't need to have the same interests. Pick out one or two things to do together and the rest you can do with friends.
If you wish for it, you might just get it. Make sure you are not trying to make him too feminine or sensitive. You have only yourself to blame if he starts crying at every beer commercial.
Accept his limitations. You just can't get lemonade from a tomato. Some things just aren't possible. This may be true of your male counterpart. Most males are hard wired for being protectors and providers. But it's entirely possible that you can soften a few edges here and there.
Finally, we don't see men trying to get women to be less sensitive and less feminine. They like that about us. They want to have someone to protect. So if he isn't trying to change you, is there a reason why are you trying to change him?
