How Should I Ask My Boyfriend Questions?
The questions you ask your boyfriend depend a lot on the type of person he is. If he’s the type who tells you a lot about his life and seems very open, there might not really be any bad question. If he’s very private asking questions might seem like prying. You probably have a rough idea about how receptive your boyfriend will be to certain types of questions.
Most men probably expect you to ask at least a few questions about previous relationships. Just be sure not to overdo it. He might get aggravated that you’re too interest in his past.
Reasonable questions about past relationships aren’t too prying. Don’t push for more information than he seems willing to discuss. It’s understandable if you get a little jealous. Just don't blow things out of proportion. If you weren’t at least a little jealous, some men might think you don’t like them enough to be jealous.
Questions that imply that you don't trust your boyfriend are generally bad questions. No man likes to have to account for every moment of his life or feel that he needs your permission to do something.
You should consider that if you’re asking him to account for his whereabouts all the time, that maybe you don’t trust him. If trust is an issue for you you may want to ask your self why.
Even bad questions can become good questions if you word them correctly. If you're asking a sincere question because you want to know your boyfriend better or strengthen relationships and will almost always be a good question. Questions you ask because of insecurity or a lack of trust will almost always remain bad questions.
A wonderful guide for excellent questions is 1000 Questions for Couples. Many couples have profoundly deepened their relationship using that book as a guide. Another very helpful relationship guide is Second Chance Romance
