How to Cease Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Men
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Coach , writes… …
"I often tend to attract the one who's emotionally unavailable. What can I do to change that"? This is a question that came from one of my clients. Coincidentally, that was the strongest complaint I recurred from my lengthy history of relationship failures. They were either emotionally unavailable, lived far away or was travelling all the time.
When you keep attracting unavailable lovers, my question to you is, "Is something in you that has a fear of commitment, or finds it difficult to be truly open in a love relationship"? That may be hard to accept right now, but that is what I have found to be the situation most of the time.
As a relationship life coach, I provide Relationship Life Coaching for Women. I also suggest that you get extremely clear about what you want. Get clear by making a list of the qualities you desire in your perfect mate.
You make the list for yourself so you can get clarity concerning what it is you truly want. You will begin to realize where any weaknesses are in yourself as you make the list. You'll see where you need to go to increase your level of creation or belief in the chance of attracting what you are desiring.
To bring out the state of feeling happy expectation, continue by asking yourself the question "Why do I desire this"? It is time to use your imagination. When you answer this question, think of all the fun things you'll do together. Think of smiling, holding hands, and introducing him to your girlfriends. Think of what it will be like to be with someone who is romantic and loves to bring you a bouquet.
You create the list for you, and the Universe recognizes your clear vibration – the undiluted intention and unresisted desire!
Many of us have been trained as a child to accept whatever you receive, it is not polite to ask for favors, why can you not just be happy with what you have? – kind of like programming. I suggest you ask for it all and keep feeling yourself into the fulfilment of your desires.
