How To Free Yourself from the Fear of Betrayal
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Advisor , writes… …
"I do not want to be hurt again, but I really want to find my soul mate. How can I gain confidence and find my soul mate"?
You have two options to go here. 1) You can wait until you have had adequate time in between the pain in your past relationship or 2) start healing and letting go of the past. Considering you desire to reach your soul mate, then I'd begin the task of letting go. It's quicker and easier than you would imagine. Receiving help from a certified relationship life coach can make your path smoother.
Being guided to do release work is a path of releasing and freeing yourself from your past. Think of releasing your emotions and letting go as forgiveness. You are making new area for the fresh, new, healthy, and whole relationship to reside in.
I realize some of you are crying “Yeah but, I do not think he really should be forgiven for his actions. He wronged me and that's just that”! The energy it takes to hold a grudge takes up your space. You're allowing your energy to be siphoned off from you. It's a slow leak in your energy field and over time, it will deplete you, if it hasn't already. Also, that slow energy leak prevents you from having all of your power focused in this present moment. When you don't have your consciousness in the moment, do you imagine you are going to be the perfect creator that you truly are? It makes it that much more difficult. Take your full potential back by releasing and letting go of your past relationship, of judgements that weigh you down, clutter up your energy field and block you from going forward to having the life you were born to live. You can increase the speed of this process immensely by receiving help from a life coach.
I find that the topic of forgiving can be a loaded one. First off, I'm not talking about the kind of forgiving where we were excusing someone else's poor behavior. It's important to have healthy boundaries set for you. And to know how you feel concerning who you desire in your life and who you do not, how you desire to spend your time and with whom. It's essential to understand what will work for you and what does not. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!
Until you clear the area of pain, you will either attract more hurt or have a difficult time being truly fulfilled with love. So first, clear out the old hurt, then release and let in new love.
