How To Free Yourself from the Threat of Betrayal
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Expert , writes… …
"I am afraid of being hurt again, but I really wish to find my soul mate. How can I gain confidence and find my soul mate"?
You have two ways to pursue here. 1) You can stall until you've had adequate time in between the hurt in your past relationship or 2) begin moving on and releasing the past. Considering you desire to find your soul mate, then I would begin the task of releasing. It's quicker and simpler than you think. Receiving assistance from a certified relationship life coach can smooth the road.
Receiving guidance to do release work is a path of releasing and freeing yourself from the past. Think of releasing your emotions and letting go as forgiveness. You're making new area for the fresh, new, healthy, and whole relationship to reside in.
I know some of you are saying “Yeah but, I don't think he really should be forgiven for his behavior. He wronged me and that's just that”! The energy it takes to keep a grudge presides in your space. You're allowing your energy to be siphoned off from you. It is a slow trickle in your energy field and over time, it will deplete you, if it hasn't already. Furthermore, that slow energy leak prevents you from having all of your power focused in the present moment. When you do not have your consciousness in the moment, do you think you're going to be the perfect creator that you truly are? It becomes that much more impairing. Take your full power back by releasing and letting go of the past, of judgements that weigh you down, clutter up your energy level and prevent you from going forward to having the life you were born to live. You can increase the speed of this process immensely by getting help from a life coach.
I find that the topic of forgiveness can be a loaded one. First off, I'm not speaking of the type of forgiveness where we're excusing someone's poor behavior. It is important to have clear boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel concerning who you desire in your life and who you do not, how you desire to spend your life and with whom. It is essential to realize what will work for you and what doesn't. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!
Until you clear the space of hurt, you'll either attract more hurt or have a hard time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, clear out the old hurt, then release and let in new love.
