How to Use the Clean Slate Method to Get Your Man Back After Your Affair
You had an affair and now your guy knows. Now, even though the affair is over, your relationship with your real man, the man you love, is dying. You're afraid that you'll never get your man back, even if you two stay together. There is something you can do to try to salvage your relationship. It is called the Clean Slate Method.
The Clean Slate Method is an approach to apologizing that helps wipe away the stain of what happened. If successful, it allows your relationship to begin healing after the affair. Please allow me to introduce you to this time-tested approach to saving your relationship.
To begin, you must take responsibility for the rift that has formed in your relationship. But you can't just say, I was wrong, I'm sorry. That places the focus on right and wrong, as well as assigning the blame. Those things will never heal your relationship.
Next you must focus on his feelings and yours. You need to acknowledge how your affair made him feel. That means you need to put yourself in his shoes and see the situation through his eyes. But you also need to be able to tell him how you feel in a way that doesn't make him out to be wrong either. This is tricky ground, and you may require the help of a Clean Slate Method guide to get to the proper frame of mind for doing this.
Finally, you must be able to make a sincere apology without any expectations. Your man may not be ready to forgive you. He may never be willing or able to forgive you. That isn't what you want to hear, but you must be able to accept whatever response your man chooses to give. Understanding how to do this is perhaps the most difficult part of this method.
The Clean Slate Method is more difficult than a traditional apology. But if done right, it has the potential to truly clear the slate and allow your relationship to recover from your affair. You can get a detailed guide to the Clean Slate Method as a bonus in T.W. Jackson's Magic of Making Up relationship repair guide.
