How To Win Her Back – With These Killer Psychological Mind Moves
Maybe you've recently split up and you want her back. If you need to know how to win her back then look no further than psychological mind games to help you on your way. A few people may frown on the use of tactics like these, but who cares what they think. The important thing is to win her back.
You may not realise but we are all subjected to some sort of psychological mind games almost every day. Not just our partners and friends, but employers and even the government are at it. Take the employee of the month competition. You don't win anything other than bragging right but the overall production goes up.
Get her to call you without asking
Most of us like to receive letters through the post, as long as they aren't demands for payment that is! So you write her a nice handwritten note and tell her you want to thank her. And tell her that things are good for you right now.
By doing this you raise 2 things in her. Curiosity & pride. She gets curios about the "thank you" bit, but then the pride takes over when she thinks she must have done something good. Because of these two triggers she will be desperate to discover the reason why you thanked her, so she will call you. You explain the breakup has done you the power of good, so thanks for that.
The real reason you sent the letter is to get her to contact you. Play your cards right here and she will forever think she got back in touch with you. After all, you never once asked her to call you in the letter. But she did anyway and that was the whole point of the exercise.
Later I can show you how to get yourself the exact letter to send. There are a few other good tricks like this as well.
Memories are there to be used
We all have treasured memories. You can exploit these memories to your advantage. Favourite songs, foods, smells. They all work as good as each other.
If she ever comes to your place or calls you (after receiving the letter!). You have the song on in the background just loud enough for her subconscious mind to hear it. Her subconscious then starts to link her favourite song with you, as those are the most recent memories of her hearing the song. Linking her fav song with you then transfers some of the good stuff she feels about the song to you.
Curious jealousy
This is where you start to go out with friends and you make sure you have a great time. But more importantly you engineer it so that she also knows you had a great time.
As long as you aren't out on a one to one date, which will probably enrage her, you will raise a slight feeling of jealousy in her. She definitely doesn’t expect you to be moving on so quick after the breakup. She may well feel she wants to be part of the fun again like it used to be.
There you have three little psychological tricks to help you to win her back. Yes a few people will look down their nose at using them but they are harmless and no serious damage will be done. But you can't just jump in and use these tactics without an overall plan.
You want to be putting these tips in as part of a bigger plan to win her back. If you don't have a proper step by step system to follow you are going in blind. Failure is likely without a plan.
If you want to discover a step by step system that will take you by the hand while you try to win her back, then check out my website…
Filed under Relationship Problems, marriage problems, news by on Oct 28th, 2009. 
