I want to wipe the slate clean with my former spouse, but how can I let it go? Is marriage relationship coaching what I need?
A woman named Helen from Ohio came to me and asked about forgiving her Ex so she could get past the pain in her life. Helen really desires to attract a relationship that will not only last a long time, but one that will also grow in intimacy. Many appreciate that question. They can relate to the pain they're holding on to from a past failed marriage. Coaching for your marriage, whether it's past or present can help. A few law of attraction coaching sessions specific to your relationship problems can be hugely enlightening.
First, you need to pat yourself on the back for actually WANTING to forgive your ex-spouse. That is huge. If you will set your desire to get rid of a small bit every day, within a very small amount of time you'll see your energy release and dissipate. It's absolutely necessary to forgive even for those of you who don't think there's any more left to release. Forgiveness is a process and one that frees YOU the most. Another great exercise is to access some things that you love about your previous relationship. These things don't have to be related to the marriage. Perhaps you enjoyed the way he did the home repairs. Or you appreciated what a close circle of budd‌ies he has. Maybe you liked his smile. It can be anything. The point is to start to look for aspects that you liked. You do this for no other reason than to shift your energy about him. You release your intentions.
When you forgive yourself and others you create space. Space to receive more of what's wanted. And for all of us, what's wanted is to receive more love. I coach all about releasing, clearing out and making space both physically and energetically in my FREE Video The #1 Secret to Finding and Keeping the Love of Your Dreams.
Filed under Relationship Problems, marriage problems, news by on Oct 27th, 2009. 
