Is My Spouse Cheating on me?
Worried about your spouse's fidelity? Use this helpful checklist to answer the question, "Is my spouse cheating on me?" The choice is yours, but you should seriously consider leaving them if your partner is exhibiting more than one of the behaviors listed below.
Men and women will often both wonder how to tell if their partner is cheating. While signs can be different between the sexes, they can also often be the same. The first thing that you need to do is recognize the fact that your spouse might be cheating on you. Once you realize that the reality of this is possible, you will be able to investigate and determine the truth. Otherwise, you will constantly make excuses for them so you don't have to know the truth.
This is a large category of behaviors. There is the late-night phone call, secret emails and new friends to be considered. Each will be given specific attention. Unless your spouse is involved in the entertainment or club industries, a late-night call is never a good sign for the relationship. In the case that they are, substitute late-night for early-morning. You will need to set boundaries with your lover as to what is acceptable. But if no one's in jail and everyone is healthy there really aren't that many legitimate reasons to be calling someone at two in the morning. Pay attention to their texting patterns as well. If they are getting random texts, and always deleting them immediately they could be hiding something from you.
The digital age has created many new avenues for infidelity. If your wife/husband has started to spend an inordinate amount of time online and is defensive about their activities you should be worried. Usually you will not even need to ask about their behavior to be alerted to shenanigans, if you walk by the computer and they instantly minimize windows, or turn off the monitor – BINGO, you've caught them.
Watching the computer can also help you catch a cheater. If the history on the computer is constantly deleted, you may begin to wonder why. If their habits become suspicious around the computer, watch them carefully. Spending more time on it than normal and not letting anyone see what they are doing is definitely a warning sign. Be careful to watch for this. So I hope after reading this, you have the answer to is my spouse cheating on me?
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Filed under Avoid Divorce, Marriage Issues, Relationship Problems, marriage problems, news by on Jan 2nd, 2010.