Jealousy – Your Secret Weapon For Making Her Want You Back!
Once you've split up, it's usually a good idea to let the relationship stay dead – but sometimes, you just absolutely know you've got to have her back, the breakup was a mistake. If that's the case with you, then use these four secret techniques. It's a wise man who can recognize a woman's jealousy and use it to trap her. Here you'll learn how to harness that wisdom. You must really want her back and be ready to commit to her after you make up – if you're not sincere, she'll recognize it and then she'll back off. Patience is the other key to making these secrets work – Rome wasn't built in a day, and it also takes time to win back someone who walked out on you!
Secret One: She knows best
This first technique is used right at the breakup, but it takes a great deal of strength. No matter how much you want to stay together, you've got to tough it out and don't bat an eye – in fact, you've got to convince her that breaking up is a fantastic idea, and that you agree with all her reasons and justifications for doing so. What you've done is use her force against her, throwing her off-balance. She's expecting you to fight, argue, beg, grovel – anything to stay together. Instead, you agree with her and let her know she's taking the right course of action. Your job now, no matter how much you want to remain a couple, is agree with her so much that she really believes you. The more you love her the harder it is, but in the end, your little deception will be worth it.
Secret Two: A breakup is a breakup – have nothing to do with her
Give her the opportunity to consider her actions without any contact with you. For some reason, when a woman dumps a man, he calls her shortly afterward, and she expects it! Now, with Secret One, you went against her expectation and agreed with her. Here in Secret Two, go against her expectation again – don't contact her!
Secret Three: What's done is done – time to think about tomorrow
Now's the time for another grand acting job. No matter how miserable or disappointed you might be, act as if you feel spectacular, you've gotten over the breakup and you're moving on with your life. Word will get back to her how well you're doing. This Third Secret also knocks her off-balance. Women expect men to be depressed and bitter after a breakup – so don't fulfill her expectation! Take more interest in your appearance – work out, get in better shape, get some nice new clothes – whatever it takes to make it clear your appearance is suddenly important to you. Women usually interpret that to mean that you're seeing someone.
Secret Four: If she doesn't want you, well, then . . .
Looking as if you're seeing other women is good, but actually doing it is great – you've got to show her that you might be lost to her. Of course, if you'd really rather not, that's alright as well, but you've got to be with women, whenever possible, even if it's just hanging out with a group of friends or having coffee. Whenever you can, flirt a bit or make a pass. If possible get flirtatious with one of her close friends. She would not be able to handle this and would get extremely jealous. As mentioned above, the keys to making these secrets work are sincerity and patience. Your secret strategies of keeping her perpetually off-balance and then making her jealous was meant to make her think she made a mistake in dumping you. Now you're in control – within a short time she should be getting in touch with you – just to see if everything's alright, of course. But what she really wants is to find out if you're free to make up.
If you found this article helpful and would like to discover more ways to fix your relationship, also check out Getting Back Your Ex Girlfriend, Win Your Girlfriend Back, and Getting Girlfriend Back.
Filed under Avoid Divorce, Marriage Issues, Relationship Problems, marriage problems by on May 4th, 2010.