Law of Attraction Coach Says: Harness Your Creative Potential, It's Your Responsibility
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Life Coach , writes… …
Maybe you have been told about the 'Bucket of Crab' mindset. I'm talking about the kind of thinking that believes, "if I can't have it, you can't either." It's a form of invalidating someone else's happiness by pulling that person down to their level. This often gets expressed by a colleague or family member who doesn't like or discourages you from striving for a higher achievement or stretching beyond what's usually the norm for a culture. Everyone's been there.
It is the same in a tribe mentality. The tribe is used to serve and keep the culture safe and thriving. Every member has an explicitly delineated and very valuable role and function. If you desired to reach beyond (as is our nature as human beings) you actually risked the safety of the tribe. You're taught: "I cannot expand past what the tribe teaches, that would mean I'd be ostracised and experience certain death". You'd be exiled and not given food or water and no other tribe for hundreds of miles.
But you were designed to create. Your inherent nature is to go beyond, express, want, and manifest. Then go for another fun project or dream to reach. I've read that prior to reaching five years of age, they have heard the word 'No' over sixty thousand times! It seems that our nature and our cultural values are in conflict with each other.
It is no wonder conflicting belief constructs, critiquing mental monologue and fear of success bring us down from time to time. It's been stamped into our subconscious. The psychological phenomena is known as cognitive dissonance. It's like static in your mind when you hold many opposing thoughts at the same time. This dissonance gets uncomfortable and wants a solution. It gets solved in one of two methods. Either by falling back on old, known patterns, or by letting go of the old to reach for a new level. A Law of Attraction Coach can assist you in completely changing your experience with expert life coaching.
It's a small wonder with the programs we have inherited that it can be so hard to make any lasting changes. You see, it's not your fault. Do not blame yourself and pile more negativity on yourself. You're not to blame. Law of Attraction Relationships are incredibly rewarding and fulfilling past your wildest dreams! Imagine someone who is everything you have ever desired in a lover.
It's not your fault, but it is your responsibility to grab your power back. You've always had the ability to choose who you are and control that. Your mind is attractive. And even more intensely, your inner dialogue in conjunction with emotion are creative and attractive. Glare the limiting programming in the face and confidently declare another possibility for yourself. You were meant to thrive and create. You have the confirmation by the Universe. Relationship Attraction has never been more powerful as a result of the discovery of the Law of Attraction.
Filed under Avoid Divorce, Marriage Issues, Relationship Problems, marriage problems by on Apr 18th, 2010. 
