Little Things Men Do That Seriously Up Their Attraction
The Good Wink
This is one area where I've done a complete'0. I used to think it was downright cheesy and used too often by guys who were anything but suave and dashing. Until I saw it done right.
But I'm a convert now! All it took was one really hot guy who flashed me a perfect and seemingly effortless wink with a little half smile. Talk about packing a wallop! Sadly, not too many guys can pull this off without looking stupid, but hey, when it works, it REALLY works!
Your fingernails
Women aren't asking men to be the picture of perfect grooming every second of the day. However, knowing that you need to clean up for work and family functions, and knowing how, should be required training before men can date. Having said that, we also love you when you're rugged, sweaty and manly! And much of the difference depends on the occasion.
Similarly, you don't have to have to most amazing physique either. We would prefer you not hold us to model standards so we're not going to do that to you either. What does count, however, is being attentive to the little details of personal hygiene. A dude with a forest of nose hair, or dirty, too-long-for-a-dude fingernails is a major turn-off.
Smelling good
There is such a thing as too much cologne, but a subtle yet unmistakable man smell is, well, irresistible! Some women (myself included), think that the au natural scent is most alluring. It does wonders for my pheromones. If you do decide to give Mother Nature a hand, easy does it. One spritz of your favorite cologne is sufficient, or just pick a great smelling deodorant.
Laughing loud, often and with meaning
It's a lame guy who can't loosen up enough to let rip with a good belly laugh when the opportunity presents itself. Too concerned with looking cool, guys like this are just lame. We all know that laughter is contagious and what better way to get your favorite lady laughing than letting your manly giggles rip at will?
And you know what happens when we laugh don't you? Our brains produce tons of feel good chemicals. A woman will make an instinctive connection between a guy who can laugh and feeling good. In other words a no fail magnet.
Losing it
While women like a guy who isn't serious all of the time, we don't want to see a guy who loses it on a regular basis either. We all have problems that we deal with, life's stressors that have to be dealt with, but guys, freaking out over every little thing is a total turn off. It indicates a serious lack of maturity. We want to be your girlfriend, not your mother.
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