Love Advice for Divorced Women
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Best Selling Author , writes… …
So you'd like to learn to love again even after being scarred from a rough divorce. Getting help from friends and family can oftentimes be the worst place to go to if you desire to heal your heart and open your heart again.
If you are struggling with relationship advice dilemmas due to a lover in your past had had an affair, it is conceivable to find a relationship again. A large breach of trust can become very cumbersome and have a lot of persisting power. Just the same, you should look for a positive outlook and healing before you can move on. I recommend that you be less judgmental of yourself and easy on yourself and keep searching for the place of forgiveness and release. You want to create a relationship with someone you trust and share yourself with completely, so you need to clear out any persisting negative vibrations.
Sometimes it is the same tale we tell ourselves and others that has us creating reasons to continue being the way we may live, or justifying our limitations.
Give some thought to the beliefs you hold about your personality. I hope you are analyzing the negative intentions that were created at a young age; the stories (that live like reality) concerning you and why you have not been happy, why you cannot have what you want, why you are not good enough in the area of love or just life in general.
I would suggest you come up with a statement that sums up that shadow side or illogical belief. I call it an illogical belief because you've obviously gone through life taking care of yourselves very well in many areas. You are experienced in many areas, you excel in some areas and you're down-right brilliant in others. You have high competencies and skills that, on the level of the intellect, assure you that you ARE good enough – in some cases truly excellent.
What was that early belief, call it your 'life statement' that sums up a deeply locked belief that has nothing to do with your logic or intellect. Create a new life sentence such as an affirmation that supports and strengthens you. You can recieve free Relationship Advice for Women After Divorce.
Filed under Relationship Problems, marriage problems, news by on Oct 27th, 2009.