Make Her Climax Tips
Every man who has seen the TV comedy, Friends, remembers the episode when Monica shows Chandler what moves to make on a woman’s body. She uses a pad to illustrate the seven special places on a woman’s body. Monica proceeds to build up the excitement, starting with one, then one-two, then one-two-three, then three, ohh then three again, then three-four, then three-four-five, then five, then five-six, then six-seven, then seven, seven, seven, seven, seven!
It’s insanely erotic for us guys to watch our women have an orgasm! Many woman admit, however, that they often fake orgasms due to a lack of arousel. Studies have concluded that women really need variety to be turned on through other sensations besides how they are touched.
You’re about the learn that the secret to properly arousing your wife or girlfriend is to mix it up, by understanding which intimate places to touch and also knowing how to increase her arousal through all 5 senses
By the way, for a great guide for love-making variety created just for men by Oprah’s Love Expert – take a look at this Ultimate Love-making Secrets
What She Smells: The aroma in the air can be a powerful turn-on, or turn-off, to just about every woman. For example, you can tap into her primitive impulses by using cologne that is musk-scented, due to its likeness to testosterone Many men concentrate on applying cologne around their face, but neglect to make sure they smell appealing to a woman elsewhere. Your lucky night is most likely over, if you’ve only splashed on some cologne around your face, and she’s later greeted with an aura of body odor when she goes down on you. A very small percentage of women can actually be turned on by the scent of sweat, but the large majority of women say, that a smelly man is a major turn-off.
Her Sense of Taste: You should also not forget how important tastes are to women. Fresh breath is certainly a must, but you should also consider making other parts of your body taste good! Everwhere that you’d want her to please you with her mouth, drizzle something delicious! So don’t forget to add some sexy flavors to enhance her stimulation!
Sounds: Playing some nice tunes in the background is a given, but be sure to pick the right music for the mood. You cannot go wrong with any of the soft romantic R and B or soft rock classics from Artists such as Marvin Gaye, Rod Stewart, or Sade. Avoid orchestra music, new-age, or metal except if you already know that she really enjoys these music styles.
Of course, the sexy words you say can really turn her on too. Although some women admit that dirty-talk can be a little distracting and that they’d prefer some simple moans and groans, many women admit that dirty talk is very erotic! Talking dirty can be soft-core or even hard-core, so find out what your woman likes to hear, and have some fun experimenting!
By the way, here’s a really popular guide that will teach what to say and what not to say in bed – take a look at: How to Talk Dirty to Women
What She Sees: Of course a widely used tip is soft lighting or a flaming candle. But do you know why red is the color of love? Redish colors actually cause a subconscious stimulation that creates increased arousal. Don’t go crazy trying to change every color around the house or apartment, as you’ll only end up in the dog house for that! You can impress her one evening with a set of red silk sheets. No woman can resist the romanticism of rose-flower pedals scattered all around the bedroom. You can find a small bag of fake rose pedals to use over and over again! Interestingly, an overdose of red colors can actually also cause a subconscious aggravated or anger reaction, but if you’re into angry sex then go all out!
Touch: The 7 hot spots on the female anatomy eluded to early on are pretty easy to guess. Although every woman has their own particularly sensitive spots, generally they’ll be her lips, shoulders, lower belly, inner-legs, bottom, boobs, and of course, her pussy. If your wife or girlfriend is like most women, then she may actually be faking orgasms frequently if you’re not pleasuring her pussy regularly with your tongue, so take this tip to heart if you’re unfamiliar with how to do it.
Flutter your tongue against her vagina and clitoris, but also do the same to the ten and 2 o’clock areas. These spots on both sides are very sensitive, and will drive her nuts with intense pleasure. A super way to intensify things is to begin at her inner knee, sliding your tongue along her thigh. Then, exhale a deep warm breath onto her pussy to insinuate, “Oh yeah, you are about to be pleasured royally with my mouth!” She’ll undoubtedly shutter and moan lustfully as she anticipates your next move. You don’t have to spend too much time licking her pussy from this moment on, because in a few minutes she’ll tell you she wants you inside of her, and you’ll most likely make her orgasm before you!
Remember, the best solution to making your woman to orgasm is to mix things up!
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