Relationship Attraction: Good Looks Is Not The Most Important Thing
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Expert , writes… …
These are the findings from a study done by a well-known dating site.
Choose the most important features in a partner:
1. Looks 11%
2. Personality 30%
3. Body 5%
4. Sense of Humor 14%
5. Eyes 10%
6. Popularity 0%
7. Smile 12%
8. Hair 7%
9. Education 7%
10. Career 3%
As you can see, personality rated top, with nothing else even getting close!
What does that say about a person? What does it mean for the dater and the datee? It means that personality, no matter what end of the table you're on, is a wanted characteristic from either person's point of view.
Now, 'Looks' is often seen as an external personification of a person. But as I've explained, 'Personality' was ranked at the top. Personality, being confident in yourself, an engaging demeaner, warmth, and being authentic are the traits that are vastly more important than physical appearance. So many of us are caught up on physical appearance, we get halted before we start. If you need the support of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get support! Using an independent listener to talk to can help you move off old patterns much more quickly.
What are traits of personality? Being confident. Self-confidence to be precise. The ability to relax, enjoy, and communicate in easy and intense matters. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is amazingly powerful for Relationships Attraction, and is not difficult to grasp.
What are basic characteristics of being self-confident?
1. Knowing what you desire.
2. Being assured of yourself. Being assured that what you want is within your grasp.
3. Self-esteem. Realizing you're worthy of what you desire.
4. Poise. In most circumstances you stay calm.
What I am pointing to is the non-physical aspects of 'Personality'. An engaging personality has nothing to do with physical looks. You can create your own Law of Attraction Relationships today and increase your level of creative energy!
Many people I know, whether they're going back into the dating scene, or simply considering it get halted with forces of the game. "I'm no longer a spring chicken." "I can't compete with the attractive people." "The singles scene seems so superficial."
That type of internal monologue will never get you back out into the game successfully. Being confident, having an engaging attitude, always having a ready, genuine smile and acting kindly, are the best traits to hold to. Remember that you do not have to do the singles dating scene. You can find Mr. or Ms. Right in the grocery store, at church, on a bike ride, anywhere. Don't hold yourself by what others are saying.
