Relationship Attraction: Rehashing The Dating Game – Play With Passions And Innocence Part II
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Specialist , writes… …
1. The fear of failing is very human
Maybe in your past a relationship or two have not worked out. Welcome to the club. This same thing has happened to each one of us. It doesn't mean any qualities about the nature of your self. It's simply something that happened. You would give any one of your friends the space to go on following a situation that may have failed right? Of course you would. When you consider that failure is just creating room for a new experience. Recall that dating (and life) is a game. Play it and be present. Show up with the first priority to have fun and find something new, not to find out how to validate yourself or prove how broken you are. You can create your own Law of Attraction Relationships right now and increase your positive vibration!
Practice being innocent and play full out. Just put it on and see how refreshing it feels. No one is intending to take something from you that you're not willing to give. Sure, there can be a varying degree of things to expect from your relationship. There is not a thing wrong with that. Simply and effective communication should handle that. Trust me, you are going to have different things you'll expect and levels of compatibility. If you don't, you'd get awfully tired of the person in a very short amount of time. If you decide that you simply wanted one play date, so be it. There's no inherent rejecting going on here. It is simply a decision on how you or he/she wants to spend their time. It's just a choice, not a rejection. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is hugely powerful for Relationship Attraction, and it's not difficult to grasp.
2. Do you feel that you do not have enough to be happy?
Your internal dialogue is "I'm not thin enough", "I am not as rich as I desire to be"; you know that noise. You are just not enough. Remember that at the center of all people's being, everyone has that ancient internal conversation, too. You're not the only one here.
Do your hardest to remain present and retaining your purpose in your game. Meaning, the point is to have fun. Imagine it as exploring. "What is something novel I can gather concerning myself or my date?" Project the energy in advance of your date. That means to actively declare what you want for that date. For example, "I intend to have fun and laugh on my date. I am going to allow this to be simple and light." Now you have just created an energetic pathway for your date. A Law of Attraction Coach can help you today to free yourself from old limiting thought patterns that inhibit your happiness.
Playing with passion and deliberation is an easy way to grow who you are in the moment. It's an extraordinarily different way to think about dating. Practice passion by being full-out and open with the purpose of having fun. Practice purpose by deliberately intending what you're thinking. The bottom line is HAVE FUN.
The vibration of FUN is one of the most attractive around. Let it be free. Laugh and have fun. You will become a magnet for fun people and if you keep practicing it, after a while you'll attract the perfect fun mate.
It does not matter if you're 25 or 75 dating – just like life. If approached as a fun game, where there are no losers, life goes much more smoothly for everyone.
