Relationship Attraction: Understanding The "Magic Formula" To Manifesting Lasting Romantic Relationships
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert , writes… …
Never before in my life have I found myself surrounded by examples of people in wonderful partnership relationships, usually in the form of long-lasting relationships. Take Don and Barbara. I think they have been married over sixty years. I had not seen Barbara since her very extensive hospital stay that started in mid-December! I eventually made it a point to carry over some flowers and spend some quality time with my old friend Barbara. Barbara and Don are role models for my husband and I. Their partnership is such an model of a stable, deep, lasting love. After that visit I was deeply moved by the stability of their relationship. They have 6 grown kids and are developing the great-grandchildren generation of life. Don cares for Barbara with unfailing faith that her well-being will return.
Seeing this type of depth transcends explanation, truly. The atmosphere was filled with knowing and endearment. Words fail me as I try to express the connection.
Then there's my in-laws. Another example of two lovers who have had to endure a life full of good times and bad. There's a stability and enduring effect that is so grounding and gives comfort. They've created children who have visions of relationships grounded in communication, respecting each other, laughing, and love. Using the Law of Attraction is hugely powerful for Relationships Attraction, and it's not hard to understand.
By contrast, there are households under which many of us have grown up in where strife, arguing, and anxiety were a daily occurrence. Strangely, in both cases, there is no "guarantee" that we will take after our Mom and Dad. Failed marriages and relationships still occur when the parents' relationship was stable and based on love, mutual values, and respect.
Is It A Magic Formula?
So what is actually going on there? These people appear to have the magic formula nailed down. Was it always easy? I doubt it. However, these people continuously sustained their will to manifest and re-create possibility in their relationships. I am sure life wasn't all sweet and easy for them. But they went back to the meaning of who they are in their connection to each other. You can manifest your own Law of Attraction Relationships right now and sky-rocket your level of creative potential!
So how come it is different for a lot of us? Everyone came into this world desiring some of this and a little bit of that. To change it up. Given, we seem to be awakening into a higher reality in which we can choose more of what we really want, instead of functioning on creating-by-default mode. We have learned to use the contrast as a place of distinction; using the contrast of a failed relationship to get a clearer picture of what we desire in a relationship that functions correctly; one that's is full of love and open communication.
Of course the contrast is great information. But what if you've had just about as much contrast as you can handle and you do not know what to do next? If you've read "Create the Love of Your Dreams" or you haev been studying any of the Law of Attraction teachers, we all say, keep your attention pointed in the direction of what it feels like to already have what it is you want. If you need the help of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means get support! Using an unbiased listener to check in with will help you move off old patterns much faster.
I will grant you that sometimes it seems easier said than done. That's where having a practice and an accountability comes into play. Why live life feeling at the receiving end of it rather than at the Source of it? Find a group, or a friend and start co-creating some perfect relationship intentions and hold each other accountable for your thoughts and actions.
There's also personal coaching. It isn't like psychotherapy that many people continue for years and years. Coaching is done to give you the power to to see where you need to change your vibration and understand your own personal inner powers so you can start to manifest the life of your dreams.
