Save My Marriage Today With Uncondition Love
While in a session, I came to realization. I was asked to think of a relationship I had with something in the last week that in my mind was the ideal relationship, and to think of what it was about that relationship that made it ideal.
A number of people in the group thought of their cars, tool sheds, families, workmates, old friends, even relationships with objects such as their television remote, recliner chair, diamond jewellery or favorite pair of shoes. To all of these individuals, these particular things felt simple and comfortable. The relationships they had with these people or objects was rewarding and easy to maintain.
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When my turn came to identify my ideal relationship, I thought of my dog. My dog doesn't require in depth or complex needs, and his boost of confidence when I get home feels his needs. I can't think of any other that greet me happily each night. The type of day I had doesn't matter, nor does the how long i've been gone matter. I call this unconditional love.
So how do we define unconditional love?
Unconditional love comes without conditions. We find this "real" love when we find the highschool, feel butterflies in our stomach love is gone. When the romantic love leaves, we begin to notice a "real" love. Real love is love you have for your partner despite the knowledge that they are not perfect. You know your partner has faults. Noone is perfect, we all know that. You know your partner makes mistakes sometimes, but that’s okay. Keep on loving them. Unconditional love is this.
Your partner will make faults, but the same thing still applies to you. You know and accept that you are the same. You have faults. Noone is perfect, not even you. Mistakes will be made by you sometimes, but it's alright. We know this as self acceptance, but faults and imperfections are outweighed by unconditional love.
So then, what do you retrieve from this situation? Should all of us buy a dog to teach us what unconditional love is? Maybe we can learn a lesson or two here. We all find ourselves bombarded with trials and tribulation, and we always stumble over the idea of letting problems rule our lives.
All this clutter won't save your marriage, you need to let your unconditional love shine. Having mistakes and faults are okay. Love will win over all the rest.
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Have a think about unconditional love and how you can apply this realization to your relationship.
