Signs Of A Cheating Husband/boyfriend
Are you wasting nights speculating if your relationship has hit the rocks, knotting your tummy each time he opens his mouth frightened off those two words ‘it is over’? Completly understandable especially when you have grown comfy and don’t want to burst that imaginary fairy bubble of you and him living happily eternally.
Regrettably the signs that it’s coming to an end are all there so you cannot space out yourself forever. Here are some breakup signs.
1) Time is one amongst many obvious breakup signs. With whom he spends his time shows a lot about your relationship. If he doesn’t ring the bell at your door anymore, avoids that cup of tea after work and generally ‘hurried’ becomes his frequent by word, then you have a serious predicament. If he is the thoughtful type or is too fearful to break up with you, then he will give you a date after a long while but don’t be suprised though if he leaves in a hurry.It may not be new work dedication but maybe, just maybe, another woman is taking your time.
2)Lack of communication is another of the plain signs husband is not in love. A solid relationship is based on communicating well. So if there are no calls from him and he either doesn’t return yours or does so on the odd occasion then he may be losing his emotional connection in you and you may be headed for a break up. Leaving messages would not take to much from him would it?. If communication has died or is failing this is one among many apparent signs husband is not in love and for your relationship to endure you must stem this flow!
3) Funds no longer flow in your way.As soon as the money stops coming in, it’s time to pack your bags. Obviously…you are not in it for his money. Well, if that helps you sleep at night, but if he is not spending some of his money on you, he is spending it on another love interest. Unless of course he is stingy who has never, even in the giddy early days, spent any money on you. And that is a whole other problem. We spend our money on the things that we love or care about so if he is not using money on you then what does it say about how he feels about you.
4) He has new tastes. A symptom of a new power in his life. Suddenly he loves the color pink for his shirts and ties although he in the past thought it was too womanly. He now spends hours on his appearance and has changed his hair style, one of the signs husband is not in love. Just out of curiosity, when was the last time he wore that shirt that you got him for christmas? Don’t worry girl, anothe woman is running his clothing tastes.
5) He is playing wit games. You have blowouts over the smallest things and lately everything seems to lead to a blow out, a great foreboder of a breakup. You walk on egg shells around him and any querries or comments become an dispute. He has temper flare ups and says mean things! Take heed, he is shifting blame to cover his tracks.
