The Best Secrets To Approaching Women
Knowing how to approach women is a vital skill every man needs to know, because approaching women is the first step in creating a relationship with the girl of your dreams…
It's important that you know how to approach a girl the right way. Let's go over some tactics that will help you to be more successful than the average guy.
Have you ever approached a girl with what you thought was the best pickup line ever, but she freaked out when you tapped her on the shoulder?
Getting rejected right off the bat can be painful, but this is why you need to know the secrets to approaching women the right way! Once you've "blown it" with a girl, it is extremely hard to recover.
The most important thing to remember when approaching women is to come off as NON-THREATENING and to not, under any circumstances, telegraph your interest in them too early.
This is all about coming in "under the radar."
You have to understand that most attractive women get hit on CONSTANTLY, so they've trained themselves to simply reject guys at the first sign they're out to pick them up.
Most men don't realize how annoying it can be for women to constantly be approached by guys who run the gamut from big time loser to big time creep. Because of this, women just don't want to deal with yet "another pick-up attempt."
But despite all this, the girl WILL be receptive to you if you know how to approach her in the RIGHT WAY.
So let's talk about the right way to approach any woman…
The first secret is – DO NOT HESITATE!
If you hesitate and let the opportunity pass you by, you're never going to experience success. Giving yourself time to talk yourself out of approaching a girl will never get you anywhere, so it's important you act quickly and JUST DO IT.
Secondly, know what you're going to start the conversation with BEFORE you approach the girl. This will make meeting women much easier because you don't have to spend time thinking of what to say before you feel comfortable walking up to meet her.
So having a good pick-up line in your hip pocket to use in these situations is probably a good idea.
But I'm not talking about the "Hey, nice shoes, what to have sex?" type line. The point is to be NON-THREATENING, remember?
The best lines usually engage the girl in an innocent conversation. You can do so by asking her opinion on something and then following that up with more questions.
Another thing – when you are approaching women, don't charge in like you're going to war. Approach them from an angle. This is less confrontational and will subconsciously put the woman you are engaging more at ease.
Remember: great pick ups can only happen when the girl is comfortable with you. That's why it's so important for YOU to feel comfortable when you're talking to girls!
If you feel uncomfortable approaching women, the best way to build your comfort level is to go out and practice meeting as many women as you can until you GET comfortable with it!
The sad fact is, you're not going to get good at approaching women if all you do is sit around reading about it and studying it like a test. If you want to get good and have success, you actually have to go out and DO IT so you can build your experience level. (The good news – it gets easier the more you do it!)
Don't be afraid of getting rejected when you do this. Look at it as a game and distance yourself from the outcome. You're not trying to get a date or get her into bed, your only goal is to talk to her and strike up a conversation. If you do that, you win!
That's all!
See how many girls you can talk to in one night, and keep trying to beat your score.
Finally, use a "time constraint" when approaching women. This is as simple as telling her you've only got a minute to talk to her because you've got to get back to your friends or whatever you're doing.
Effective use of time constraints will better engage the woman you're talking to, because she won't feel that she's committing to a time-consuming endeavor. Instead, you're only a momentary "distraction." This helps eliminate any reason to reject you right off the bat.
If the initial approach goes well and the conversation continues, she will eventually forget you said you can only talk for a "minute" and you can talk as long as you want. The whole point is just to get your "foot in the door."
In the world of dating, it all boils down to a numbers game. The more women you meet, the better your chances of finding your soul mate.
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