The Girlfriend Says She Needs A Break. Is It Time To Worry?
Sooner or later we all face that dilemma. Since you are reading this, it's a safe bet It has happening to you right now.
"We need time apart"
What is your girlfriend really saying?
Usually, your girlfriend, for her own reasons, wants a some space in the relationship. There could be a couple of reasons. She may be trying to gently end the relationship, or it could be that she needs to do some soul searching Only by knowing the whole story, can one determine her intention.
Is our relationship in danger?
I have to admit, it sounds like it could be trouble. It may be decided by how you respond to the break. Don't take it personally, she needs space from the relationship, not you. The majority of guys will make attempt smother her instead. They may make an attempt to secure the relationship.
This is the wrong approach. Try to keep in mind, she's requesting a break from the relationship. It's not a good idea to overwhelm her with affection. That is not what she wants. She wants to be left alone, so she can think.
How can I take care of the problem?
How can I show her I love her if I can't be more attentive? You can show her by keeping your distance.
Grant her request to her space, so she can have time to think. It's possible by giving her space, you'll gain her respect. It's highly likely, she'll miss you and want you back. The time apart could result in a better relationship.
Giving her the space she need is often hard. Particularly, when all you can think about is getting back together. Hang tough and keep busy. Most of the you spend apart, she will be thinking about you. The more time you spend without her, the more she'll miss you and want to get back together.
Keep busy with hobbies while giving her space. Do fun activities so that you don't think about your girlfriend. Doing this will also help you have something exciting to talk about when you see her again.
I can identify with your puzzling situation. You're not sure what she wants. Trust me, she isn't sure what she wants and the space will help her decide. Give her the time she needs, she'll think about things and realize she misses you.
In all likelihood, she'll find out she misses you and it will strengthen your relationship.
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