The Three-Step Strategy For Winning Her Back
What man hasn't experienced the heartbreak of having the perfect woman suddenly lower the boom and walk out on him? Do you want her back? If you do, you can have a good time following these three steps. This is a challenging approach – don't undertake it if you're not really serious about her. However, it carries a high likelihood of success because it touches a woman where she's most vulnerable – her curiosity and her pride. Curiosity killed the cat, and it's going to drive her crazy as well, as she tries to figure out what's going on.
Dropping out of sight is the first step. Cut off all – ALL – ties with her, her family, and her friends. There can't be any contact, there can't even be any sightings! Women who break up with men are used to having them keep trying to reconcile – sometimes it takes weeks or months for a man to understand that it's really over. Your job now is to break that mold. After a few days she'll try calling you – "Just to see if you're alright." When she can't get in touch with you, she'll contact her friends – and then yours. It's your job to prepare them, make sure they don't give her any sense of what you're up to or where you are. While she's getting curious about what's going on with you, you've got to get busy setting up the next step. You need to make some modifications – part of the mystery approach requires that there be changes in your life that she'll see later, and she's got to wonder about them. Think about the changes in your life you've wanted to make anyway, and get to work making them! You might refurnish your place, or work out and lose weight, change your hairstyle, these sorts of things. A new wardrobe is very effective in conveying the sense that you're a new man – as long as it's a change in style! All the seemingly insignificant things like phone numbers, etc., have to change as well. The time will come for you to emerge and let people start seeing you again, and when that happens the word that she gets must be that you've changed for the better – and she's got to believe that it's due to the breakup – she's got to believe that you're better off without her. It'll drive her wild with curiosity!
Okay, you're in better shape now, you've got a new look that you really like . . . it's time to go to phase two. Like the first step, though, it's got to be properly managed to get the best outcome! After all your hard work, it's time to kick back a bit – throw a party! A small party – this is a carefully orchestrated event consisting of a handful of friends through whom word will filter back to her of all the wonderful positive changes youâ
Filed under Avoid Divorce, Marriage Issues, Relationship Problems, marriage problems, news by on Mar 14th, 2010.