To Save Your Marriage – In Case of Relationship Emergency – Don't Call 911
You hear the murmur of silence, or is it the murmur of chilly wind, and the tentacles of an icy blast sends you rushing to find fading warmth. You suspect the arctic storm is about to break!
But the devastation you fear won't be from material possessions lost, but from something far more loved, a once loving partnership being turned to impenetrable ice.
No matter what turned the heat of your love to a frosty chill, rarely do any of us know how to relight the flame and begin warding off the biting cold.
In fact…
Unlike a real winter disaster when emergency services come to dig you out and bring warmth back to your life, aggressively penetrating the deeply frozen core is often the WRONG approach to take when trying to warm relationship problems.
Consider that like many since this financial downturn your love has turned to ice due to some worrisome financial problems.
Not too hard to imagine is it?
These may start with a few chilly comments, small issues and arguments over how and where money is being spent…or not spent.
Then, maybe because of the frosty environment and pressure of these financial chills one partner starts evading you and moving to more warming environs and this is not helping your chilling relationship.
She escapes into TV, Video Games, Alcohol, Cyber Porn…or worse?
So now there are two chilly situations and quietly developing is a third because the other partner is starting to feel left out in the cold.
Can you sense the cold?
Feel the temperature plummet and the ice growing around you?
Now with all these ice-laden winds blasting within the relationship, it is not going to be long before the ice develops and everything start crumbling under the weight.
So where do we generate the warmth first?
Our frozen finances? Our monetary chill seems pretty tough to de-frost right now and not likely to see any warmth soon.
So maybe we should commence with the escapism? That seems like an easy chill to heat up… provided your not the one running!
…and try telling someone that's out in the cold and isolated that "they should just get over it" is like slamming the door on a freezer.
So where do we begin when we don't see any good place to start? Particularly when we finally realize that we do not have enough heat to warm everything at once, so there is always a patch of ice… Somewhere!
The answer is… We begin!commence where there is warmth, and build a fire that will radiate warmth everywhere.
What we should do is stop focusing on the problems and focus on where we still have love…even if it's just a small amount.
Uncover the things you love doing together, put your problems aside and begin to rekindle the love you once enjoyed.
And do you know what invariably happens? Often once you start rebuilding the fire within…your problems will start melting away.
Yes… The ice vanishes and the suns warmth returns.
Here's how it could happen with a little scenario;
Tim and Candy both love camping in the country together.
They both agree to get away and have a weekend relaxing in country they once loved.
They agree, once the front door closes, they are away from their chilling problems and once more enjoying the outdoor world they love, their chilling thoughts, being overtaken by the warmth of sharing their adventure.
No longer is Candy feeling the chill of isolation because Tim's always escaping…
This little bit of warmth leads to love making as they cuddle for warmth in their tent at the chilly evening air descends.
This moves to… Tim feeling cozier, he finds new confidence, and as his self-esteem builds and he gets more intent about finding additional income.
With his new found confidence Tim finds work, it may not be ideal, but it starts thawing the financial chill until he can find his something higher paying.
In no time, where Tim and Candy's relationship was about to become permafrost, now it is turning from icy cold to a warm, stronger and less chilly relationship than ever before.
The moral of the story is that with enough LOVE couples can overcome most any problem including affairs, drug use, even a family death.
But when everything is frosty even relatively insignificant problems can easily become a full on winter storm.
Now if you're reading this, but feel that an arctic storm has already frozen your relationship, you may find it comforting to know that there is invariably an opportunity to re-spark the fire, you just might have to search a bit harder for the matches.
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Many of these realizations are just as counterintuitive as the technique I've just handed you here.
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