Top 5 Mistakes Guys Make Regarding Sexual Positions
One of the big challenges men have is to decide on what positions to use when getting booty. One of T prime fears are that the woman will get bored with the "same old, same old" and as a result lose interest in sex. So the question becomes, What are the best sexual position in order to please my girlfriend
The best way to put in plain words this is to talk about what NOT to do. With that problem in mind, I Will now explain the top five mistakes guys make when it comes to sexual positions, so that way you won't continue making them.
Position Mistake 1: Imitating anything seen in a porn movie. This is most likely the main reason that guys fail with sexual positions. Inexperienced guys think porn is a good model because they see perfect guys banging beautiful broads, and… well, they just don't know any better. The problem is that sexual positions in those sorts of movies are intended to display the beset scene for viewers, not to maximize pleasure for the actors.
In reality, one of the WORST positions for vaginal and clitoral stimulation is when the girlfriend puts her ankles on your shoulders. When her body is bent that far, she will feel uncomfortable if you push in too far. Plus it's a position that forces too much. (If you ever have a chance to watch the making of an sex movie, you'll notive how quickly the mood is killed when the actress has to stop the scene to go to the bathroom!)
Position Mistake 2: Trying put too much effort to keep your weight off the lover , in any sexual position. To every wife , sex is the best way to get closer to her man. She loves it when you lean on her body. So here's a tip for you to try… Next time you're having sexual intercourse with your lover (while you're engaged in actual sex, that is), get more of your weight on her. You will see that during sex, almost every wife enjoys feeling her man's body pressed hard against her body.
So how much weight should you put on her? Make it enough so that after you finish, and the sexual frenzy dissipates, your girlfriend will tell you that she feels like she's being smooched. Of course, do this within limits! If you're on top off her grinding her pubic bone for too long, it can be painful for her.
But the outcome is that many, many women like to be pressured by the man’s weight. So stop thinking you are hurting her
Position Mistake 3: Letting the girlfriend do all the work when she's on top. For practically every wife , sex is mostly a passive activity. So by being the motionless guy, you destroy the whole reason of sex for her, which is to open herself up to you penetrating into her body.
Position Mistake 4: Being a weak man. Too many men have read too many "Men are From Mars"-type books and imagine that women like it if you ask permission for everything and let them take the lead. Be the alpha male instead and just "do it." Flip her over, move her here and there. Be aggressive and even toss her about like a rag doll when you need to adjust positions, and… she'll LOVE it! And don't be concerned about it. If there is something that the lover doesn't like, she'll let you know.
Position Mistake 5: Thinking the trickier positions are better. You don't need to be hanging from a lamp, upside down, and doing something crazy. Just be normal. An old standby like the missionary (man on top, wife lying on her back) can be the best sexual position.
Complicated positions are just not satisfying for everybody and often destroy the mood because there's too much "where should I put my arm?"… and not enough "let's just have fun exploring."
John Alexander is author of How to Be Her Best Lover Ever, a groundbreaking sex guide for men that will make you so good in bed that your girlfriend will beg you for more. Find out more about the best sexual positions by CLICKING HERE!
