When I Got My First Vibrator, My Marriage Became Complete
Such small things are able to make such huge differences in our lives. I found this out when I bought my first vibrator. This female toy has not only been responsible for me discovering the pleasure and importance of orgasm, it has also helped many other women too.
Marriage is not only about the marriage of minds, it is about out bodies and souls also. Women are expected to understand and cherish these factors today. They are no longer expected to lie back like a concubine and not complain and participating fully in a marriage can be its making.
Complete intimacy means that sex and trust also play a role. If you can trust a man enough to have good sex with him, then you can trust him for anything.
My introduction to female toys came about by accident – I received and invitation to an adult party plan party. This was sent by a work colleague from a partner company and as we had a good working relationship, this was a good opportunity for us to get to know each other better.
When I arrived there was such a buzz in the room, the excitement was palpable and I asked Bev, what is this all about? When she told me I nearly dropped dead with fright, but she is a nice Christian girls so I was reassured. She told me that this would be great fun and I would learn a lot.
It was good fun, the girls were already having a good time.
We were fascinated as the adult party plan lady unpacked all her female toys, potions, lotions, underwear, role play outfits and novelties, and crowded around her like excited children around a magician. Her talk was funny, empathetic, inspiring and educational and I was suitably impressed enough to make a purchase.
My situation was different, but I could see that a couple of years down the line, I could be in the same boat. My husband and I had discussed the fact that sex did not really turn me on, so to speak, but although it didn't bug me now, it might later.
On her suggestion I bought a small waterproof double bullet vibrator unit, a role play outfit (the French maid) and motion lotion. She told me that bullet vibrators are always the best female toys to get if it is your first attempt, they are not so intimidating.
When I shared all this information with my husband, he was very open and also really excited for my package to arrive. This was the first of many similar brown paper packages we have opened together and he sometimes say why don't you order this or that, so I now have quite a collection. We play together now and sometimes it’s a game of Monopoly, but sometimes its also the police woman locking the bad boy up in handcuffs with no get out of jail free card we love Adult Party Plan.
