When Is It Time To Say Goodbye
Each man will have an occasion in their lifetime where they decide whether or no to become serious with the person in their life. It does not mean the time of moving in together is upon them, but perhaps it means just that. It is a time of leaping ahead. A reevaluation of the relationship may be necessary. Breaking out princess cut engagement rings or saying goodbye may be the choice.
The perfect relationship does not exist, but this does not dictate departure time. The age of the people involved can determine how far the relationship goes. When the one thought to be eternally loved stands waiting to receive an eternity ring as proof of how deep feelings have become, is it time to fly away? If it does not evoke those feelings, it may mean the relationship can proceed forward. Fear may mean it is time to go on alone.
Watching a person hanging around in a mousy sweater and brown boots to see if true love is coming, can be a pitiable sight. If there is question as to whether someone is really into another, there are signs. Otherwise one may be stuck being the one for right now, instead of the one for eternity.
Making a list of pros and cons can be useful in determining the good and bad in a relationship. Seeing if the good outweigh the bad helps determine if a relationship is worth being invested in.
Just because someone was assumed to be a soul mate, does not exclude any other soul mates from appearing. There is something to be said about being comfortable with a person immediately. Sure, relationships take compromise, but this does not mean it should be a daily struggle. When people are into one another, there is a kinship that just makes each recipient want to do be a better person.
Constant bickering in a relationship may just mean the time to continue has ended. If there is anger upon the sight of someone, that is another signal of time to move on. One should not wake up and find they have wasted years of their life on someone that they cannot stand, just trying to find a commonality. There should be something in common already.
Monotony is not always a requisite part of an understanding and productive relationship. Deep connections should be entrenched in everlasting love and real comprehension.
Filed under Avoid Divorce, Marriage Issues, Relationship Problems, marriage problems by on May 1st, 2010.