Why Crisis is a good thing in Saving your Marriage
If you know that your marriage or relationship is in freefall, and things are rapidly going from bad to worse, where do I even start the process of saving my marriage?
It maybe that you are both surviving an affair and trying to make some sense of the chaos,and wondering how on earth things have deteriorated to this point.
Well here’s some good news, if you are desperately working on saving your marriage, or trying to stop your divorce before it becomes final, there is still hope for you both, and there have been many people who are where you are now, and who have gone on to not only patch things up, but come out of the situation with a stronger relationship, and a rediscovered closeness and intimacy.
So even though you both may be angry hurting and confused, this may actually be a really good thing! Sounds unbelievable I know, but its true. This is one of the most important bits of advice on relationships I can offer you.
How about looking at things in a very different way. Imagine a business that is dying financially and heading for total bankruptcy. Things actually had to become critical before the owner realised that he had to do something drastic to save his business, but by taking the right action, he rebuilt his business so it was even stronger than before. If this crisis hadnt come about, the business wouldnt have been resurrected and would have died or failed in a short space of time. So this crisis was actually a POSITIVE THING! Can you see the similarity between this situation and your marriage?
At this point in time, I understand that your situation feels awful, but it is actually good that you have arrived at this point, because it offers you the chance to work with each other to change all the things in your marriage that dont work, and build a fantastic loving and supportive new relationship. What an incredible opportunity this is WOW!
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