You Don't Need To Be Clingy and Needy – Save Your Relationship
Women become clingy for different reasons but usually it has to do with the relationship we've has with our parents and our past romantic partners. This neediness can lead to your mate feeling frustrated and can lead to him ending your relationship. So that you can avoid a dating disaster, here are some tips to stop being clingy and reduce the neediness factor in your relationship
Plan Your Together Time. Do you konw the next time you'll see each other or talk? Not knowing will increase your anxiety about our relationship. Have regular planned time together. A regular time to call or text, a date night, a regular day trip. Both of you need to commit to making this time a priority. Having this planned time will give you something to look forward to and can keep you from clingy behavior.
Learn how to trust him. You shouldn't think "what if?" when you're apart. Don't worry about what might happen if he sees a prettier woman, if he sees his ex or if he's on the phone with a woman. The "what ifs?" can make you crazy. You need to think about "what is?". You need to remind yourself what your relationsihp is and try not to stress what might happen. Focus on what you know, not what you think you know. If he's given you reason to think there may be a reason not to trust him, then that's something you both need to talk about.
Enjoy a life of your own. Before you started dating, you had friends, hobbies and things that you did with your friends. You become dependent on him for your happiness when you center everything you do around him. The only person what can make you happy is you. Maintain a relationship with your friends and family and stay active with your hobbies. You'll be happier. You'll be less fixated on him and you'll have things to talk about.
Remember how great you are. Remember why he started dating you. You're smart and beautiful and fun. Remember how amazing you are. If you have a problem believing this, write it down, repeat it throughout the day. You need to be around people who make you feel good and do things that you enjoy. You need to feel good about yourself. Confidence is sexy and makes you more attractive , and he'll notice.
Tell him if you know why you're being clingy. If he's doing things that make you feel like you don't matter, it's time for the two of you to talk. When a woman feels insecure in her relationship, she might apppear more needy and clingy. Talk it out, he may not realize how he's making you feel or he may just not be into you. If you tell him and he doesn't want to work on improving your relationship, it's time for you to leave.
Remember in the end you need to do what's best for you, not him. So stop being needay and clingy and become a cool, confident woman.
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