You Don't Want To Be Called Bridezilla
No woman wants to be known as bridezilla. The term inspires images of a hideous, hairy creature in a wedding dress with a bouquet of wilting flowers. Your wedding is the one day when you want to look like a princess, so this makes it even worse to be tagged with such a dreadful name. If you want to keep your cool on your wedding day, and avoid the epithet, here are some tips that may help.
A Wedding is a Party
Although the service itself is a traditional ceremony imbued with symbolism, tradition and meaning, the reception itself is just one big party. And parties should be fun. This party may have taken thousands of dollars and months of work, but when the time comes for the party to begin, you won't be able to control what happens next. The time comes when you will need to take a step back and let the professionals do what you've hired them to do.
When little things go wrong, such as the cake you ordered turns out to be chocolate instead of vanilla, you need to simply smile and move on. In many cases, the more work that you've put into preparing the reception, the more things there are that can possibly go wrong. This is no time to run out of the room in a huff, or to throw the cake in anyone's face but the groom during the obligatory feeding. Although it may not be the cake you ordered, it probably didn't ruin your wedding or destroy your life. It's just a cake. Instead of falling apart, simply eat your cake and enjoy it.
Perfection is a Myth
When thinking about remaining calm for your wedding, it is important to consider the idea of perfection. Every bride-to-be wants to plan the perfect wedding day. But that's a lot of pressure to put on any human being, especially a bride. Just remember that perfection is a goal rather than an attainable end result. If you plan well and keep track of everything then you can come close to perfection. However, once the day comes when you are ready to walk down the aisle, it's time to let it all go, take a breath, center yourself, and relax.
Remember to Smile
Remember your last job interview. Remember the way you felt – so nervous that you thought you were going to faint. You had to explain why you were leaving your last job while remaining politically correct and speaking positively about your boss, your colleagues, and your working conditions. You will need that attitude during your reception. Pull it out of your bag of tricks when your new mother-in-law makes snide comments about your hairstyle or the best man has a few drinks and then starts telling embarrassing stories about you and your groom. No matter what happens, stay calm. If you lose your cool, you'll be labeled a bridezilla forever.
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