You Know He Is Into You When
When we meet someone, we begin the mind-numbing game of trying to decipher every little word and move they make, every approach they take in all the games people play, trying to figure out if they like us or not.
Why do we women do this to ourselves? I can't for the life of me figure that out! Mind you, I'm not innocent either. After all, you don't become a relationship writer without a whole lot of relationship self analysis. After all of which I have concluded that straining ourselves to figure out a man's emotions is just too much work. When really, it's not that complicated.
Provided you're not receiving totally mixed signals from him, you should just follow your instincts in determining whether or not he's smitten with you. You can go analyze this to death of you want, but what it comes down to is what you feel deep down. Chances are your intuition about his feelings is probably spot on.
That being said there are still those of you who like nothing better than examining his every word. You actually like playing the "he loves me, he loves me not" game. To ensure you're on the winning side, here's a cheat sheet. If you're still not sure, just ask him outright.
His friends know about you
If you meet his buddies for the first time and it's clear that your existence isn't news to them, that's a good sign. Men don't tend to chat up their pals about women they aren't pretty interested in.
He calls you just to talk
I could write a book about men who believe they shouldn't call a woman the day after their date. It's such an old and out dated notion.
Just because he doesn't call right away does not mean he isn't interested. However, if the next time you hear from him it's 11:30PM on a Friday night, this guy is clearly all about the ass over class. If you're cool with that, then go to it. But don't expect a guy who follows up a date with a booty call to want to meet your parents anytime soon. Barring that situation, if he calls in the next week to set up the next date, he's interested, at least for now.
He really listens
Men listen to the women they are interested in. Why? Because they're trying to determine her likes and dislikes. They want to be romantic with you, and the best way to do that is my figuring out what makes you tick. It's all ammunition for their romantic attack.
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